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[2025 Weekly newsletter 12] Who are we? What is our shared identity?

This week, I reflect on three powerful influences—from Ed Harlow’s critique of the education system, Ibram X. Kendi’s insights on hidden dangers, and Gareth Southgate’s approach to resilience and belonging. How do we equip children to navigate both visible and invisible challenges? And what kind of shared identity are we shaping through our interactions? Join me in exploring these questions.

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I might be going off on one here, but lately, a few powerful influences have been swirling around in my head. At first glance, they seem unrelated, but I believe they’re deeply connected to how we navigate education, identity, and the unseen challenges our children face.

First, Ed Harlow, Vice-President of the National Education Union, recently gave a passionate talk about how children are no longer truly recognised as individuals within our education system. The curriculum no longer serves the child – it’s the child who has to squeeze themselves into the curriculum. Arts education, for example, is often sidelined, limiting opportunities for creative expression.

Second, Ibram X. Kendi’s book ‘How to Raise an Antiracist‘ keeps echoing in my mind.

He points out how we instinctively teach children about invisible physical dangers – like looking both ways before crossing the road. But do we give the same attention to the invisible dangers of microaggressions, bias, and prejudice? How do we prepare children to protect their mental well-being in a world where these unseen threats are ever-present?

And finally, Sir Gareth Southgate’s Dimbleby Lecture this week struck a chord.

While he spoke about belief and resilience in young men, his insights felt just as relevant to early childhood education.

He built a football team by connecting with each individual first, creating a culture of belonging. His goal?

…A proud, diverse, resilient team who stood up for each other. … It meant that when we anticipated racial abuse before games, the players had the power and support to decide their response if it happened. They chose not to be intimidated…

He also spoke about the importance of representation and role models:

“…Players had a positive impact upon society and inspired youngsters up and down the country. That is the power of identity.”

So, how are these threads connected in my mind?

…What kind of shared identity are we shaping when we interact with young children?

Education, as it stands, is outdated. Designed in response to the Industrial Revolution, it hasn’t evolved to equip children for today’s world – one filled with social media, misinformation, and complex social dynamics. More than ever, they need to learn to think critically, develop self-belief, and navigate the unseen dangers of bias and discrimination. If we never talk about these realities in safe, supportive spaces, we risk fostering fear and mistrust – barriers to both individual growth and teamwork.

So here’s my reflection for the week: What kind of shared identity are we shaping when we interact with young children?

Are we modeling positivity, inclusion, and resilience—or do we sometimes fall short?

At times, the fight for positive DEI awareness feels overwhelming. But then I hear from passionate voices like these and remember: every effort counts.

I’m taking this week to reflect on the shared identities I create in my interactions, both with children and adults.

Maybe you’ll be inspired to do the same?

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Dr Clare Seymour
Clare has spent much of her professional career (over 30 years) in international settings. Part of her Doctoral research involved exploring the often hidden aspects of institutional racism. As a result she has a longstanding interest in, and passion for, promoting positive Diversity.

In addition to school music-teaching, Clare also has over 10 years’ experience working as an international music examiner – an understanding and respect for Diversity is so crucially important in every aspect of her practice.